tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-563426065615996110.post9036812660778869911..comments2023-05-12T06:10:13.661-04:00Comments on A Long Patience: You Say It's Her BirthdayAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00830525553830638384noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-563426065615996110.post-33924838683569046082009-09-15T09:19:33.709-04:002009-09-15T09:19:33.709-04:00Well, of course I am the WORST person to be allowe...Well, of course I am the WORST person to be allowed to have an opinion on this subject. Ever.<br><br>But I would think anything that involves time together for the two of you, without teens or babies, would be fabulous.<br><br>Any oil-rubbing is a bonus. I could give you a list of what parts I like having rubbed, but I'm guessing that's a individual preference thing.Mary Ellenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14416798580398814009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-563426065615996110.post-88109276045591691692009-09-15T17:20:50.289-04:002009-09-15T17:20:50.289-04:00Write down all the amazing things you love about h...Write down all the amazing things you love about her, or fond memories of your years together on little pieces of papaer and post them throughout the house in a scavenger hunt type fashion. Give her the first one to start her on her merry way - you should be the last prize, of course...what better present than your love and devotion????Mama Drama Times Twohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04935810256080795505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-563426065615996110.post-26293096817484678142009-09-16T16:59:57.252-04:002009-09-16T16:59:57.252-04:00Mmm...I like both of those ideas.Okay, I really tr...Mmm...I like both of those ideas.<br><br>Okay, I really tried to think about what I might like and here goes. How about you buy a calendar - a nice one if you can find one still, but you should be able to find at least an academic/business year type in either the college bookstore or the office supply section - and you pick one day each month where you two can plan to have a babysitter (or an older teen!) and just go out to be together and recharge.<br><br>I picture the calendar with the special day circled in a red heart or something like that. Maybe even a title/assignment of what you'll do. You know, Oct 10th - Go for lunch at our favorite cafe and a long stroll in the park. Nov. 14 - Drinks and dancing at Club Zest. That sort of thing.<br><br>You could also write a specialized coupon for a service like footrub, backrub, read aloud to her for an hour, and staple one to each month.<br><br>Well, that's what I came up with so far. It's romantic. It's reasonably priced and it gives her your love and attention to look forward to over the whole year.<br><br>Hope that helps - she deserves a great day!<br>MarieMariehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16085632875123586185noreply@blogger.com